I'm Sammy.
Father to Zaire and Zayden. Builder of dreams they haven't dreamed yet.
I made a choice: Present over perfect. Time over timing. Their memories over my comfort.
Now I'm documenting the cost. And the reward.
The Truth No One Tells Black Fathers:
This is the part nobody sees. The sacrifice. The grind. The choice between now and later.
While they sleep, I build. 3am feedings turned into 3am dreams.
But here's what I discovered: They're not watching me arrive. They're watching me become.
I'm Sammy.
Father to Zaire and Zayden. Builder of dreams they haven't dreamed yet.
I made a choice: Present over perfect. Time over timing. Their memories over my comfort.
Now I'm documenting the cost. And the reward.
You get 760 hours. Total.
With your child between ages 12-18. That's it.
One month. Out of six years. To shape who they become.
Right now:
I refused to be a statistic. So I became the evidence.
Every 3am feeding documented. Every sacrifice recorded. Every small win celebrated.
Not after I made it. While I'm making it.
They need to see the becoming. Not just the became.
Success isn't the money you make. It's the man you become making it.
My sons see everything. How I handle failure at 2am. How I celebrate small wins. How I choose them over easier paths.
One day they'll understand:
The inheritance isn't what I leave them. It's what I showed them while I had nothing.
That character builds compound interest.
That presence pays dividends.
That love is the only currency that matters.
No motivational BS.
No empty promises.
Just raw documentation of Black men doing the impossible.
Your sons are watching. What are you showing them?
They don't believe Black fathers stay.
They don't believe we build wealth.
They don't believe we show up.
Your story changes everything.